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ASK, NOT TELL
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Miracle happens before and after
I was reflecting with a few facilitators on how to handle a difficult situation in a workshop. One facilitator shared a quote –...
David
Dec 22, 20121 min read
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Seoul – Willingness to Learn
I have had a great experience in Seoul last week. My learners in this leadership development class were awesome. I was quite worried...
David
Apr 20, 20122 min read
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What does a facilitator do? Space and Time
I facilitated 2 senior management meetings recently. Both were attended by intact teams comprising fewer than 10 people i.e. a small...
David
Jan 8, 20122 min read
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Co-design... trap
An additional idea on top of one of my recent posts – Co-designing with client. I talked about a lot the benefits in designing the...
David
Dec 11, 20112 min read
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Co-designing with client
Here is another learning from the ARL (Action Reflection Learning) workshop – always co-design with the client for learning or meeting...
David
Nov 14, 20111 min read
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Be prepared, and prepared not to use what you prepare
Recently, things have been happening much faster than I can reflect and capture. It is good since my capability and confidence will...
David
Oct 27, 20111 min read
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Small-group Facilitators
In the top-100-managers conference mentioned earlier, we ran the conference with 9 other small-group facilitators. Each had to...
David
Feb 8, 20112 min read
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A Big Lesson
I just conducted a Leadership program in Indonesia. It is a hard but valuable experience for me. In a sense, I am glad that I...
David
Oct 16, 20102 min read
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My journey towards greater flexibility
I have had a few great learning experiences in Feb. First, I facilitated a one-day planning workshop in Shanghai for the HR team in...
David
Mar 4, 20102 min read
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A Rare Opportunity (Cont’d)
Let me share my learning from the rare opportunity I mentioned in my last post. Summarizing the various feedbacks from the others, my...
David
Jan 15, 20103 min read
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The “Missing Piece” – The Learners
The 5-day Shanghai workshop did turn out to be a great learning experience for me. I learnt a lot by observing my fellow facilitators...
David
Jul 5, 20093 min read
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Learning from failure
I facilitated a team building activity earlier for a group of 90 people in a business conference in Shanghai. Right after the event, I...
David
Feb 11, 20092 min read
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Preparation – the fine balance between ‘task’ and ‘people’
I have written quite a number of posts on preparation (link) before. I strongly believe in preparation. “Proper Preparation Prevents...
David
Dec 11, 20082 min read
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Should I be the ‘trainer’ or ‘facilitator’?
In my previous post on ‘Presenter vs Trainer vs Facilitator’, I discussed about the difference between these 3 roles. I want to zoom in...
David
Mar 20, 20082 min read
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‘Tell, then Show’ rather than ‘Show, then Tell’
I attended a lot of presentations on a regular basis. They include presentations by participants in my training class, product briefing...
David
Oct 29, 20072 min read
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“Product Briefing” is boring by nature?!
One of the most common internal presentation made in our industry is product briefing. The briefing could be an overview on a product...
David
Oct 1, 20073 min read
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PQF #3 - ‘Arrive Early’
There is no magic. I can guarantee you that your presentation performance will improve simply arriving early at the scene. My experience...
David
Sep 25, 20072 min read
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PQF #2 – ‘Ask an “answerable” question at the start’ – Continued
To illustrate my previous post of the same topic, here is a real example which one presenter used in the Toastmaster lunch session this...
David
Sep 20, 20071 min read
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‘It is just a general briefing!!’
I conducted 3 presentation classes last week in Shenzhen and Beijing. Like most other classes, some participants picked some general...
David
Sep 9, 20071 min read
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ASTD - Interactive Handout
I always argue we should not give to the participants the handout before the class, because they will focus on the handout instead of...
David
Jun 13, 20071 min read
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