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ASK, NOT TELL
....and many other thoughts about facilitation, coaching ( teams & individuals) and learning
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Why ‘Ask, Not Tell’?
A reader asked me recently why this blog is called ‘Ask, Not Tell’ (or ANT as I call it sometimes). I am embarrassed to realise that I...
David
Jan 13, 20082 min read
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‘Deadly Practical’ and ‘Less is More’ for Line Trainers
I recently designed a one-day course with purpose to equip the line trainers with basic facilitation skills. I basically wrote the...
David
Jan 9, 20082 min read
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Make them listen to your announcement
I am writing this on my flight from Shanghai to Singapore to attend a TTT course. Before the take-off, there was a safety demonstration...
David
Jan 6, 20082 min read
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2008 – A morning wish!
(Photo: My bike in the Shanghai Bund at 8:38am on 1 Jan 2008. It is freezing!! Just -2c!!)
David
Jan 1, 20081 min read
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More about ‘You’ve got to find what you love’
Further to my last post, let me post here Steve’s famous speech video in Stanford. Frankly, the content is better than his presentation....
David
Dec 31, 20072 min read
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2007 – ‘You got to find what you love’
2007 is coming to an end soon. I love 2007 as I manage to accomplish the major objectives which I sat out at the beginning of the year....
David
Dec 30, 20071 min read
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Made it Stick
I like the ‘contemporary wisdom’ in this book. Unlike those old-fashion literature, this book is easy to read with simple sentences and...
David
Dec 29, 20071 min read
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“Natural delivery, not Cesarean Section!”
I attend a pre-natal training today in a local hospital in Shanghai today. It is of good value - RMB50 for 2 hours. And to my surprise,...
David
Dec 25, 20072 min read
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RAC - Obtaining Better Feedback
Course: A presentation course Date: 17-18 Dec 2007 Location: Warm in Guangzhou, China # of Participants: 10 I am feeling: Good Tried the...
David
Dec 18, 20071 min read
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“I will write if you read….”
I have been discussing here it is difficult to get quality feedback in class. I really discuss this with one of my ex-participants. I...
David
Dec 17, 20071 min read
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PQF #5 - Addressing WIIFM by repeating 'So, the Implication to you is...'
It is important to address “What’s In It For Me” (WIIFM) in every presentation. In fact, not only in the beginning or end, but also...
David
Dec 14, 20072 min read
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RAC - Got to charge up the energy
Course: A presentation course Date: 11-12 Dec 2007 Location: Cold in Shanghai, China # of Participants: 8 I am feeling: a bit tired...
David
Dec 12, 20071 min read
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RAC - Timing
Course: An intensive boot-camp for Sales Date: 3-7 Dec 2007 Location: A very cold weather in Shanghai, China # of Participants: 24 I am...
David
Dec 9, 20072 min read
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RAC – Example, Example, Example…
Another presentation class I ran in Shanghai. Always love this class. The class size is small enough for me to give significant...
David
Dec 1, 20073 min read
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RAC - ‘Poker’ in class
Course: A 3 day management course Date: 21-23 Nov 2007 Location: Sunny days in Shenzhen, China # of Participants: 23 I am feeling: Tired...
David
Nov 23, 20071 min read
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Chinese version of the famous quote
In the training field, we always use this quote: I hear and I forget; I see and I remember; I do and I understand. — Confucius I have...
David
Nov 23, 20071 min read
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Trainer-Participant Relationship – Intended Conflict
A new thought from a 3-day management course which I am conducting this week. There was a team-problem solving activity which requires...
David
Nov 22, 20072 min read
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RAC – Life Affecting Life
Date: 18-19 Nov 2007 Location: A rainy weekend in Shanghai, China # of Participants:10 I am feeling: Tired but Meaningful I started being...
David
Nov 18, 20071 min read
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‘7 Habits of Highly Effective People’ – Build Personal Rapport with Participants
7 Habits of Highly Effective People‘. They all speak quite highly about it. You may have heard of a book of the same name by Stephen...
David
Nov 15, 20072 min read
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Trainer-Participant Relationship 2
Another reflection about the relationship with the participants – if you find the participants ‘mis-behave’ e.g. walking in and out all...
David
Nov 14, 20071 min read
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