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‘Immunity to Change’ vs Psychodynamics
[Photo source unidentified. Please advise if anyone knows. I will add the source accordingly] I learnt to use the ‘Immunity to Change’...
David
Oct 19, 20194 min read
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Demons in Gobi desert
[Photo source unidentified. Please advise if anyone knows. I will add the source accordingly] In the ‘Journey to the West’ story (西游记),...
David
May 10, 20193 min read
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‘Are-you-ok-I-am-ok’
It was Day 2 of the Gobi race and we were somewhere midway in the 96km race. Right in the middle of the day, all were tired and some...
David
May 3, 20193 min read
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Leadership Development in Gobi desert
Experiential learning to an extreme – a leadership development program in the form of a team walking race for 96km in 2.5 days over the...
David
May 1, 20191 min read
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Why does Economics assume rationality?
To a certain extent, I regret that I was major in Economics in university. Economics assumes that people are rational i.e. individuals...
David
Feb 24, 20193 min read
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Danny Chan 陳百強
I had a day of individual and team coaching sessions last month. I arrived early to settle myself in my coaching room. The first song...
David
Oct 16, 20181 min read
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‘I know how to ….. but I don’t really want to’
A reflection on a recent ‘learning miracle’. I conducted a day of group coaching with 5 executives in a business school program. ...
David
Oct 8, 20183 min read
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Safety vs Freedom
‘It is often safer to be in chains than to be free’ Franz Kafka I come across this quote on radio today. It explains so well how often...
David
Jun 20, 20181 min read
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'What may also be going on?'
'What is really going on?' - It is the question often used in the Adaptive Leadership practice as well as in the psychodynamics...
David
Jun 12, 20182 min read
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Virtual Coaching
Some time ago, I worked in a program with a few other coaches. Because of misunderstanding on the schedule, a few coaches could not be...
David
Jun 2, 20182 min read
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www.davidyau.com
I recently built a website to describe my work as I launch my coach / facilitator business in Asia. The purpose is to have something...
David
May 22, 20181 min read
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The Good Old ‘Images’
This post is again about the fundamentals of learning – the use of images. I came across the above image on ‘Moneyball of Leadership”...
David
Apr 14, 20181 min read
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The ‘Clash’ between Coaching and Training
I recently ran a rather typical management development program. There were a few modules in a few days. Each modules was built around...
David
Dec 26, 20172 min read
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The Good Old ‘Training Activity’
I came across recently a clip about an experiential learning activity around the topic ‘understanding the others’. It makes me...
David
Dec 14, 20172 min read
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Love Art in Yourself
I happened to hear on a radio show this quote – ‘Love art in yourself, and not yourself in art’ by Konstantin Stanislavski who is a...
David
Nov 26, 20172 min read
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Dancing with the Surprise
Less than 12 hours before starting a 2-day Leadership Development workshop, the client told me that they need to take the first 1 hour...
David
Nov 8, 20172 min read
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Dilemma between Learning and Performance in Action Learning
[Regent Park in London, May 2017] I am an advocate on action learning, or more specifically the practice of ‘Action Reflection Learning’...
David
May 21, 20173 min read
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10 Years Old
Like what I said in the 5 years anniversary, I would not imagine that this blog would last for 10 years when I started it in 2007. I...
David
Apr 6, 20173 min read
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A New New Look
Time for change! Here is the new look for Ask Not Tell. In memory of the old look (the 2nd version) which has been in place for a few...
David
Apr 6, 20171 min read
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